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HOW DO YOU TREAT OTHERS?
I’ve mentioned this before, but I
have a strange addiction to the
Queen of England. Her life story
intrigues me, and I couldn’t
imagine taking over a country
at the age of 25. I could only
imagine the stress of life she
dealt with while having to follow
the traditions of the monarch.
I’ve watched TheCrown on
Netflix three times now, and I
decided to watch The Queen.
We won’t talk about the fact that
this movie came out
approximately 13 years ago,
and I’m just watching.
The movie highlights the death
of Princess Diana and how
Tony Blair (Prime Minister at the
time) andthe Queen handled
this event. While watching this
movie I was moved by the lives
that Princess Diana touched,
and many didn’t know her in a
personal way. It wasn’t like she
had connections to the millions
who mourned her death, but
there was something about her
that made everyone feel like
they knew her.
While watching the movie I
was reminded by what Maya
Angelou stated, “People may
not remember exactly what you
did or what you said, but people
will never forget how you made
them feel.” There is something
powerful about that statement.
The way in which you made
someone feel. When someone
makes us feel something it’s
normally a feeling that we never
forget because it makes an
imprint on our heart.
Can you recall
a person who
came into your
life who and
made you feel a
certain way?
I realized while watching the
movie that many felt they
could relate to Princess Diana.
She made statements while
conducting
interviews that
made her relatable to people.
She seemed to be truthful in
her speech and I believe this
is what gave her the title of the
People’s Princess.
I was challenged by this movie
to make sure I’m making people
feel a certain way. I must be
truthful
in my speech, take
the time to listen to others,
volunteer and help when I can
and in some small way make
a difference in this world.
People want to know that
someone will stand up for them
and while watching the movie
I seen the idea of this being
displayed.
I didn’t plan this month to talk
about a 13-year-old movie, but
I hope you take the time to look
at your life and think, was there
someone who made you feel a
certain way by doing, saying,
or speaking up at something
that you connected with. How
do you treat others? I know we
are living in some interesting
times but think of the direction
we could move the world if we
thought about how we treated
others.
Life is short which is evident by
the movie. I encourage you to
make an impact on the lives of
others and remember people
want to know that you care and
that you will be there for them.
Blessings,
Dwana Bradley
Urban Experience
-Dwana Bradley
Dwana Bradley ,
Editor of Urban Experience
Magazine
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AFRICAN-AMERICAN ARTISTS
OCTOBER FEATURE:
Des Moines Art Center
Lecture by Joyce Scott
Written by Angela Jackson
DES MOINES, IOWA – As a local custom frame
retailer and art gallery, The Great Frame Up in
West Des Moines enjoys supporting the visual
arts. This month we encourage readers to take
a drop-in tour at the Des Moines Art Center
Recently on August 25, 2019, Joyce Scott gave
a candid talk about her life and work Titled
“Joyce Scott: My Best Voice is an Artist” at the
Des Moines Art Center. During the lecture Joyce
Scott shared multiple slides of her art work.
She also shared multiple photos of her family
members and gave the audience a sense of her
self-discovery. She sang a few songs and told
of her oral performance work on stage as well
as her visual artistry. One of the most compelling
points was when she pointed out the influences
that Harriet Tubman has on her artwork. She
has done several public sculpture installations
using Harriet Tubman and has featured her in
numerous other artworks.
The lecture was well attended and the public
gathering was an opportunity for the community
to engage with a world renowned and celebrated
visionary activist. Joyce Scott reminded us of
how artists can incorporate social themes as
well as humor in ways that encourage others
to respond to turbulent times while using art
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-Melvin Edwards,
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as a change agent. Joyce Scott’s lecture was
organized by the Des Moines Art Center. Joyce
Scott was both inspiring and educational.
“With Edmundson Art Foundation funds, the Art
Center has purchased a major sculpture by the
artist Joyce Scott, entitled “Mistaken Identity”
(2018). This work by the MacArthur “Genius”
Award recipient exemplifies her approach to
art making, which often merges traditional
handicraft with potent social commentary. Here,
she combines beads and Murano glass forms in
a seated figure with horns and a tail holding fire
in its hands. Through this sculpture and others,
Scott references social justice issues, such as
gun violence, racial profiling, abuse of women,
and sex trafficking.”
On your next visit to the Des Moines Art Center
ask to view the nearly two dozen works on view
by African-American and African artists - works
from artists Joyce Scott, Jean-Michel Basquiat,
Romare Bearden, David Hammons, Betye Saar,
Lorna Simpson, Carrie Mae Weems and
Henry Ossawa Tanner -- several featured
previously in the Des Moines Urban Experience.
Readers are encouraged to explore for
themselves and be inspired by the artworks
currently on view by African and African
American artists from the Des Moines Art
Center’s collection.
Take the family to the Des Moines Art Center
and check it out! For more information- www.
desmoinesartcenter.org
We currently feature originals, prints, sculptures
and framed artwork of numerous African
American and Iowa artists in the gallery. To see
some of the prior artists featured visit www.
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by Donnetta Austin
In the NIV Bible Mark Chapter five beginning at verse
twenty-one it talks about how Jesus is crossing by
boat to the other side of the lake with huge crowds
surrounding him.
A synagogue ruler named Jairus
approached Jesus and fell at his feet requesting that
he would help heal his daughter who is severely ill
and dying. As Jesus continued his path surrounded
by a large crowd of followers he felt the presence of
a particular person who barely with little strength they
had left touches the garment of his
clothes drawing the power right
out of him.
It was the woman with the issue of
blood. She had no name which is
significant because many of us can
relate to her situation. This woman
has been suffering for twelve long
years. She has been seeking help
from many doctors, her finances
are running low and options are
few.
She does not have many
resources left to use. The loss of
blood has made her weak to the
point she feels drained. People
have distanced themselves from
this woman which has caused her to isolate herself.
This woman has hit rock bottom with trying to survive
from day to day.
One day she got fed up with her circumstances and
decided to change her way of thinking. She needed a
break through.
This woman knew that her break through is going
to challenge her in spite of what the rules are, what
people have to say, or her financial status. She made
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up in her mind as a believer that Jesus is the only way
to being restored, transformed, and made new.
This
woman was not limited by her mindset, way of thinking
or her actions. By faith she spoke life into existence of
her situation. She chose to live and not be held back
from her past history. The medical records or results
showed a positive to having an issue of blood. Jesus
said, “daughter your faith has healed you”. Go in peace
and be free from suffering.
Romans 8:31
What then shall we
say to these things?
If God is for us, who
is against us?
Galatians 5:25
If we live by the spirit, let us
also walk by the spirit.
Psalm 62:5
My soul, wait in silence for
God only, for my hope is
from him.
By Author Donnetta Austin
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Retire God”
Email:
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Wellness
By LaTonya Shook
Integrative
medicine and health
psychology
are
beginning to recognize that health is influenced not
only by the physical body but the spiritual, mental,
and emotional bodies as well. Your mind is affected
by your body, and vice versa. Your mind is affected by
your spirit and vice versa. Mind, Body, Spirit means
that our well-being comes from not just physical
health, but from mental health and spiritual health as
well. www.zoneofcomfort.com
Spiritual Health:
What is Spiritual Health?
First, “knowing God” and Second, accepting and
embracing God for yourself. Then, its being in
alignment with God to have order in your life and
allow you to access and practice the Fruit of the
Spirit: Love, Joy, Peace, Longsuffering, Kindness,
Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness and Self Control.
Meditate on the laws, which requires some selfreflection
and application in your life. Make sure
it is done somewhere there is no distractions.
Practice submitting to God…listening and following
instructions.
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Why is it Important?
Because you are a spiritual being, having a physical
incarnation. These fruits allow you to live in harmony
with yourself, all life sources and the universe.
How can I attain and maintain it?
A consistent prayer life.
Develop the habit of worship.
Study the spiritual principals of life.
Interact with others and nature in a positive and
harmonious way.
Be involved in activities that create, rather than
destroy.
Respect the environment.
Understand self-preservation does not involve hurting
someone else.
Journaling your journey: not only helps you see your
growth and blessings and will help someone else
along the way.
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Joy
By Kaleb Nichols
See I’m happy
I’m not happy because I got a 4.0
Or because I got the
newest kicks
No
I’m happy because
of what this is
I’m black
And dammit I’m
beautiful
Handsome, I’m all of
the above
This golden sun reflective black skin
is beyond a gift, how could my people
not be happy !
See This black skin don’t weight me
down, nahhh N#@!* it’s lifts me up
How could Y’all not be happy with this
African blood that
lingers within us
We carry the
world in culture
regardless if they
tried to bring us
over in ships
N#@!* we set the
wave!!
And all they did
was throw trash in it
But that won’t ruin my black joy
You see My black joy is built off
years and years of hard work of my
family, who made the most out of the
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See my people have crawled through
ever obstacles no matter the rut
This BOLDNESS carried on my Skin is
for sure to wake every eye up
This joy will carry a smile on my face
regardless of what y’all think of us
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presidents at hand
Cause when my grandparents made
fun out of Jax’s and a ball for hours,
free styling and rhyming without takin
showers
They created joy that filled the whole
neighborhood
See
These family gatherings where you
gotta remember every cousins and fake
remember the aunts and uncles
See with this black joy I can become any
and everything
Cause I can’t explain how goooood it feels
to me, just to see what we’ve deemed
With These locs n cantu it will for sure
show everybody how my people can lock
and focus on what we do
Cause See we all felt like the president
when Barack made it!
And When Friday comes on, we all know
what we sayin’!
And When they playin’ swag surfinnnnnn’!
Or That family business when y’all
cookin’ up them mean greens and got all
the kids waitin’ in the one room so the
adults can talk and eat
Or when our families were taught to ball
on a beer budget but still taught to strive
champagne taste
Mannnnn All the memes and culture we
transpire that have carried on throughout
our wildest dreams
I think y’all get what I’m sayin’
Cause when our ancestors walked, they
suffered so We could run
When my ancestors fought they did it so
we wouldn’t have to fuss
So when they pass us the torch I feel in my
greatest need to light it up
Cause no matter how much y’all take
No matter how much y’all try to break us
And no matter the difficulties we faced
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No matter how much they try to lock us
away
We gotta stay happy
No matter how much they try to discipline
us in they European ways
We gotta stay happy
No matter how much they try to tear a
brother down
We gotta stay happy
They envy that this joy drives us
Cause when we as people carry ourselves
on our own backs, they can’t even pack
half of that, regardless of the less of the
spine they got
Moral of the poem is Just know I love being
black
And Black joy comes from the simplest of
things....
Me lookin’ the mirror and simply smilin’
I love being black
I love this joy I feel
I know it’s sounds repetitive
But with love you always gotta restate the
way you feel
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Student Makes a
Real Difference for
Prisoners in Uganda
By Drake University Law News
Anthony Harris, a third-year Drake University Law
School student, spent his summer combining his
legal education with his passion for human rights.
Originally from Memphis, Tennessee, he majored in
history at Morehouse College. Until his senior year,
he had never considered going to law school. After
taking a constitutional law class as an elective, he
decided to pursue international law at Drake Law
School.
Harris quickly looked for
opportunities to expand
his knowledge outside
of the classroom. This
past spring, he applied
and was accepted
to Pepperdine Law
School’s Sudreau Global
Justice Program.
Harris was the first non-Pepperdine
student selected for the program. He and the others
in the program traveled to Uganda at the end of
May and stayed in Kampala, the capital of Uganda,
for 9 weeks. There, he worked for six supreme
court justices, completing individual assignments
and researching concepts like joint representation.
The problem, Harris explains, is that Uganda suffers
from a severe case backlog. In fact, it is common
for a case to take up to five years to go to trial. In
combination with a first-in-first-out policy, many
Ugandans wait in prison for years before their
case even reaches a courtroom. An integral part of
Harris’s work with the Global Justice Program was
to speed up the process for some cases.
“It’s definitely the most hands-on experience I’ve
ever had. We’d read over the file … then we’d
go in and interview the prisoner. Most
of the time we got a translator so we
could get the prisoner’s side of the
story. We’d come up with a plan to
present to the prosecutors. We’d
agree on the charge, years, and fill
out the paperwork. The prisoner
signs it, the prosecutors sign it, the
judge signs it, and then later that day
they’d go to a hearing and everything
would get put in the system.”
In the course of just two weeks, he and his team
completed around 300 cases. Harris said the most
meaningful part was working with those in the
prison system.
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were doing was impacting people. Just seeing the
looks on their faces. Imagine being in prison and
knowing it’ll be five years before you even get a
trial. So the fact that we were there and helping
them, meant a lot.”
Harris credits much of his success as a student
to his involvement in organizations at Drake
Law School, including the Black Law Students
Association, International Law Society, and the
Christian Legal Society.
“I feel that a lot of the things that interest me don’t
interest the traditional law student. Drake has taught
me to just go after what you want. I learned how to
make a way, use all of your available resources, and
stay true to what you want.”
After graduation, Harris has accepted a year-long
clerkship position with Justice Edward Mansfield at
the Iowa Supreme Court.
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BY TERRY HOWELL
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is no secret that men are horrible when it comes
to communication and sharing our feelings! In fact,
let’s be honest. We suck at it! Often times, we are so
concerned with our “reputation” or the way others
will “perceive us” for allowing our feelings to show,
that we would rather suffer in silence than to admit
that we are struggling emotionally. Every day, there
are millions upon millions of men walking around
in self-imposed prisons. Some will never see the
light of day, while others will, at some point, find
freedom from their fear of expression. My goal is
simple. I want to SET MEN FREE!
So, why are men so afraid of showing their feelings?
Why do we pretend that nothing affects us? Why
can’t we just be REAL? I can sum it up in one word...
PRIDE!!! Men are prideful to a fault! Here are just a
few examples of our pride: 1) We won’t admit when
we are lost! 2) We don’t want to ask for help. 3) We
don’t want to admit that we are wrong. 4) We don’t
ever want to use the phrase “I don’t know” because
we think we should have all the answers. 5) We
don’t like to appear weak. 6) We definitely don’t like
to admit that women are just better at certain things
than we are!
That being said, let’s focus on the “feelings.”
Holding our feelings in is one of the biggest culprits
in sabotaging our relationships, friendships,
parenthood, and even our careers. When we are
posed with the question: “Are you okay?” because
we had an obvious flicker of concern or fear in our
eyes, or in our disposition, we use the infamous
“I’m good” response. Well the truth is, WE ARE
NOT GOOD! WE ARE NOT OKAY! WE NEED HELP!
Of course, while we are screaming for help on the
inside, our outer appearance shows confidence,
poise, calmness, or arrogance. Even with that
fleeting moment of outward insecurity and concern,
we quickly shake it off and keep it moving.
When I was a little boy, around the age of 7 or 8, I
remember giving myself prep talks when I got hurt,
disappointed, frustrated or upset. I would literally
go and lock myself in the bathroom, stare at myself
straight in the eyes, and say: “You’re good!” “You’re
okay!” “Everything is going to be fine!” I would
then get really serious. I would lean in closer to the
mirror, squint my eyes, grit my teeth, and say “STOP
CRYING!” Moments later, I would emerge from the
bathroom as though nothing happened! There was
no evidence of any pain, hurt or disappointment for
anyone to see. I have no idea where those feelings
went, but they were gone! (Or so I thought).
We use the infamous “I’m
good” response. Well
the truth is, WE ARE NOT
GOOD! WE ARE NOT OKAY!
WE NEED HELP!
I have spent the better part of my life hiding my
feelings. I chose to ignore them as though they
would magically disappear. To my conscious mind
– they did. Over the course of time; however, those
suppressed feelings began to surface in the form
of uncharacteristic behavior, self-sabotage, poor
judgment, unfulfilling relationships, womanizing,
addictive behavior, bad decisions, depression,
and low self-esteem. These are just a few of the
unwanted manifestations of my suppressed
feelings. I have suffered tremendously because of
compartmentalizing. The question is: Why do we do
this to ourselves? Is it to defend a false persona? A
fake sense of confidence? A misrepresentation of
who we truly are? At what point do we get real, and
deal with our issues?
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feelings as others around us. STOP PRETENDING!
STOP HIDING! STOP IGNORING THE TRUTH! The
sooner we are real with ourselves, the better our
quality of life will become! It is okay to admit that we
need to talk, and more importantly, TO ACTUALLY
TALK! But because we don’t talk, we are hurting our
wives, our girlfriends, our children, our families and
most of all, OURSELVES! We have to heal in order for
our children to be whole! Kids learn by example, and
the more we hide from our feelings, the more they
will hide from theirs! We are better than that. Are we
going to continue to perpetuate this dysfunctional
cycle of behavior, or are we going to be REAL MEN?
I implore you to reach out to someone and express
your pain. We have to become Men Above Pride!
Contact TerryHowell:
terryhowell@thconsultantsllc.com
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Workout
Hairstyles
by Quianna Tucker of TranZitions
There have been so many times I’ve opted out of a workout
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both. Below, find our best advice.
These are the best and simple styles for your
gym workouts. They are easy to maintain:
Top Knot Bun
Bantu Knots
Cornrows
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Pre-workout
Products & items to use before heading out
to the gym. Make sure hair is clean and dry.
Spray your favorite dry shampoo brand
throughout the hair. Brush and style
to your desired look.
Or if you don’t use alot of
heat on your hair, you may
use a fruity smell leave- in
conditioner of your choice, or
whatever works best for your
texture hair. Rub natural oils at
the back of ears & neck! You are
set for your workout session!
Always keep a sweat band, head wraps and /
or hair pins to keep fly aways in place.
Post- workout
1. Make sure hair is completely detangle before wash
2. Wash hair with clarifying shampoo (2×) this removes residue buildup from your
hair
3. Use moisturizing shampoo right after clarifying wash. You have to put back all
natural oils that was removed from your clarifying wash!
4. Use a hair mask for a deep conditioner treatment. This mask will penetrate &
deeply hydrate your hair
5. Rinse, blow-dry and style for the night.
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Cory Booker
Speaks On Gun Violence & White Supremacy
by Celeste & Gary Lawson
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deadly mass shootings, and about a week
following his speech concerning gun
violence and white nationalism at Mother
Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal
Church in Charleston, South Carolina,
where a white supremacist gunman killed
nine African-Americans in 2015, Democrat
United States Senator and Presidential
Candidate, Cory Booker, announced a plan
to combat hate crimes, extremism, and
white supremacist violence.
We first interviewed Senator Booker in
February about his campaign seeking the
Democratic Party’s nomination to become
the next President of the United States. His
campaign recently reached out to us and
we arranged for an exclusive telephone
interview with Senator Booker, that took
place on August 27, discussing his plan to
combat hate crimes, extremism, and white
supremacist violence.
Gary: Senator Booker, would you please
elaborate on your planned efforts concerning
gun control in the United States?
Sen. Booker: Certainly. We are at a point
now in America where we have a mass
shooting crisis…and a homicide crisis…and
a suicide crisis that is so grand, that in the
last sixty years alone more people have died
from gun violence than folks who have died
in every single war we’ve had combined…
from the Revolutionary War all the way to
the present wars. It is unconscionable, and
it is unacceptable, and particularly hitting
our communities of color…where AfricanAmerican
men make up the majority of the
homicide victims in our country. Now this is
an issue that is affecting every community…
everywhere…and a fear in our society is
growing so great, that we are doing nothing
about it.
In fact, we’re so capitulating to the fear of
our society…and giving up our freedom…
freedom from fear, freedom from violence
and we’re sending kids to school now with
a message that ‘we can’t protect you…so
we’re going to teach you how to shelterin-place…and
how to hide should there
be a bathroom in your school’. That’s
unacceptable. As a man who lives in a
community that has much gun violence…
where I had a young man shot on my
block last year with an assault rifle…I feel
an urgent need…an urgent call…to do
something about this.
African-American men
make up the majority of
the homicide victims in
our country. Now this is an
issue that is affecting every
community
Our plan is based upon evidence-based
strategies that have shown to work in other
places. For example, our gun licensing
part of our plan…it is common sense that
someone should need a license…you need
a license to buy a car…to drive a car…
you should need a license to buy and own
a hand gun. That is just such an important
pillar because the states that have done it,
like Connecticut, have seen about a 3% drop
in homicides…a 41% drop in gun deaths,
including a 15% drop in suicides.
I’m going to fight for this issue with
the urgency of someone who lives in a
community and sees these deaths all too
often. I’m bringing a plan that will end this
epidemic of mass shooting and address
issues of suicide.
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that this is something we will get done.
Celeste: Would you please elaborate on your
planned efforts to address white supremacy?
Sen. Booker: Absolutely. I said this a few
weeks ago at Mother Emanuel Church,
addressing white supremacy is not an issue
of charity or philanthropy, it’s an issue of
national security. We’ve seen the majority
of terrorist attacks in our country since
9/11…and then right-wing extremist groups,
and the majority of them have been white
supremacists groups and individuals. This
is something that we have to do more of to
combat with efforts that are proportionate to
the size of the problem.
So, if I am President of the United States,
I would create a White House Office to
combat hate crimes and white supremacist
violence…that really focuses on coordinating
efforts between federal agencies and
community organizations…to make sure
that federal resources work to reverse the
rising tide of hate crimes in our country…
we are quickly able to respond to them when
they occur…and provide the victims and
communities harmed by white supremacy
violence the resources they need to heal and
to thrive.
And I’m going to charge this office with
coordinating with federal and local
responders combating the spread of
hate online, where you see a lot of this
white supremacist hate and ideology and,
ultimately violence, fester, and I am going
to make sure…again…that we focus on
the victims to make sure that they have
the resources that they need to heal, but
also focus on those communities that are
disproportionately targeted to make sure that
they have the protection they need to prevent
future acts of violence.
We have a terrible underreporting of white
supremacists and acts of hate crimes in our
country, and so we are going to make sure
that we have improved data collection…
reporting by the DOJ (Department of Justice)
and FBI (Federal Bureau of Investigation)
because we really can’t combat these threats
unless we fully understand the extent to
which they take place…and know a lot more
about the contours of these historically
underreported crimes.
Gary: Do you have any other thoughts
regarding these issues that you would like to
share with the readers?
Sen. Booker: Yes, this is not something
that a government can do alone…we all
have to do something about it. There is no
neutrality, or sidelines-sitting, on this issue.
If there is racism and white supremacy in
this country, then it’s not enough to just say
that I’m not a racist or a white supremacist…
we always need an anti-white supremacy…
anti-racism…and take responsibility for trying
to have our culture healed and reject these
kinds of cancers.
I think all of us have to understand what we
need to be doing to help end hate in our own
lives…what are we doing to help promote
understanding…to help banish ignorance…
and to help create more unity.
At the end of the day, our generation has
to do a better job of getting rid of hate and
creating more ‘indivisible’ in this one nation
under God. I think that is something that we
all have to take responsibility for.
Celeste and Gary: Thank you.
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politicians, and others who are prominent in
public affairs, for the purpose of elevating
and increasing voter education and
governmental interaction.
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Celeste Lawson is a freelance writer
who focuses on various aspects of
education and cultural diversity. She
earned a graduate degree in Curriculum
and Instruction, and an undergraduate
degree in Elementary Education, with
concentrations in English and Language
Arts. In addition, she has more than
20 years of classroom experience
with teaching students at the primary,
secondary, and postsecondary levels.
RICKI KING
Ricki@RootsToBranchesGenealogy.com
www.RootsToBranchesGenealogy.com
Gary Lawson is a freelance writer who
focuses on various aspects of business
and government. He earned a graduate
degree in Government Administration,
and an undergraduate degree in Business
Administration with a duel concentration
in Management and Marketing. He is a
Vietnam-Era veteran who has served as a
Commissioned Officer in the United States
Army. In addition, he has taught business
courses at Drake University and Des
Moines Area Community College.
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